{"id":113,"date":"2021-10-04T08:28:38","date_gmt":"2021-10-04T08:28:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thisrupt.co\/?p=113"},"modified":"2022-05-12T09:42:16","modified_gmt":"2022-05-12T09:42:16","slug":"the-unbearable-lightness-of-being-a-poo-noi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thisrupt.co\/index.php\/2021\/10\/04\/the-unbearable-lightness-of-being-a-poo-noi\/","title":{"rendered":"The unbearable lightness of being a \u201cpoo-noi\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<br>Equality is an empty word written in the constitution. What we say and do each and every day defines who we are: we Thais are not equal.<br><br>Government Spokesperson Thanakorn Wangboonkongchana called it:<br>\u201cA familiar relationship between boss and underling.\u201d<br>\u201cAn affectionate and playful family thing.\u201d<br><br>He is absolutely correct.<br><br>Thanakorn also called it \u201cnormal for a former soldier.\u201d In this, he\u2019s not entirely correct. It\u2019s normal, not just for a former soldier, but for the Thai culture.<br><br>On 30 September, when video footage of General Prayut Chan-o-cha smacking the head of a security officer went viral, social media went nuts, calling it \u201cinappropriate.\u201d<br><br>Social media is wrong. It is very appropriate, a tradition that reinforces outdated social hierarchy and reflects time-honored inequality.<br><br>General Prayut is a \u201cpoo-yai\u201d (elder, a social superior). The security officer is a \u201cpoo-noi\u201d (younger, a social inferior) or a \u201cdek\u201d (literally a child, also means someone of inferior status).<br><br>In Thai culture, a poo-yai smacking the head of a poo-noi is affection. However, a poo-noi smacking the head of a poo-yai would lead to a collective shock.<br><br>Traditional society would gasp breathlessly over the inappropriateness of the sinful action that karma would be left with no choice other than damning the uppity poo-noi to an eternity of burning in hell.<br><br>The smack on the head is but a social etiquette to keep the mass of poo-noi in line and to remind us of our inferiority.<br><br>To smack is to rule. To meekly receive the smack is to submit.<br><br>The smack on the head also speaks volumes of a social relationship in which the poo-noi cannot talk back, argue, or debate. Questions are also disallowed unless they are questions that ask for orders or guidance.<br><br>We Thais have been indoctrinated into this social relationship since we were schoolchildren and live with each and every day until we become ash to ash, dust to dust.<br><br>In Thailand, there\u2019s a group of people who are our superior. They are untouchable and infallible. It\u2019s a matter of duty, honor, and loyalty that the rest of us submit, obey, and conform to our superiors.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;Equality is an empty word written in the constitution. What we say and do each and every day defines who we are: we Thais are not equal. Government Spokesperson Thanakorn Wangboonkongchana called it:\u201cA familiar relationship between boss and underling.\u201d\u201cAn affectionate and playful family thing.\u201d He is absolutely correct. Thanakorn also called it \u201cnormal for a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":114,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-113","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-thisurpt"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thisrupt.co\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thisrupt.co\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thisrupt.co\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thisrupt.co\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thisrupt.co\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=113"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/thisrupt.co\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":115,"href":"https:\/\/thisrupt.co\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113\/revisions\/115"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thisrupt.co\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/114"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thisrupt.co\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=113"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thisrupt.co\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=113"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thisrupt.co\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=113"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}